Archive for February, 2011

Thought-provoking

Last weekend while catching up on some blog reading, I came across a post wondering about what it would be like if your hometown ceased to exist. It turns out there was a town in the Northwest Territories called Pine Point, and it literally has been erased from the face of the earth. You can see the very moving documentary here.

I watched the documentary, and honestly, I cried. I’ve been thinking about it all week. Of course, my hometown is alive and well. In fact, I almost have more than one hometown as I am from an area where many small towns are so close together that you live in one and go to school in another. I have several repositories of memories, so to speak.

I think the reason the documentary seemed so powerful to me is because the place my husband grew up no longer exists either. It hasn’t been razed to the ground and filled in, but I’ve seen photos and most of it has been dismantled and carried off almost brick by brick. To make matters a little more difficult, it’s in another country. We carry around boxes that the movers aren’t ever allowed to touch, filled with childhood mementos… slides, photos, videos. I once insensitively griped about the room taken up by all of them in a closet, until he reminded me, “Look, that IS my childhood, it’s not like I can go back and reminisce. It’s all I have left.” Ouch.

I’m similar to the makers of the documentary in that although I have never been there, I am endlessly fascinated by it. I enjoy going to reunions, often because I can finally put a face to an often told story. I told dh about the documentary, and that I thought someone should make a website dedicated to their town, too. They have books of stories, hold reunions and try to remind each other of the memories they share, but it’s all so fragmented.

Nothing ever stays the same, and goodness knows my hometown has changed a lot. But much of it has stayed constant. I mean, my dad still lives in the house I grew up in. It’s good to remember to be grateful for that.

Happy Heart Day

 will you be mine?

Every once in a great while, I still get the itch to make something. School has not completely zapped my creative juices after all. And so it came to pass that the dutchkid had homemade Valentines to give away this year.

By last night I was starting to wonder about the wisdom of this venture, particularly the handstitching of twenty little pencil-topper hearts. And as my husband so sagely commented, “You know the kids just want candy, right?” But they did end up being kinda cute! Plus, the dutchkid’s teacher asked me how we made the paper valentine itself, because she thought it might be something they could do in the classroom. I won’t lie, it made me feel like mom of the year. Then again, we are new at this school, so perhaps I looked like I was trying too hard?

Credit where it is due: I first saw the pencil toppers a long time ago here, and adjusted it to be a heart to suit my purposes (nothing really magical here, just cut out felt and stitch with embroidery thread). We made the valentines using a sort of easy printing process, that I found here via The Crafty Crow. I did modify the process slightly because I wanted smaller valentines, so I printed out the words first on a sheet of cardstock and then used glittery tempera paint on the entire sheet before cutting them out. Nice and easy.

I hope you had a wonderful Valentine’s Day. Hopefully one that involved lots of chocolate!

(im)perfection

There are lots of thing that I think I handle pretty well during deployment, if I do say so myself. I don’t mind being alone. I can usually deal if something breaks, falls apart, or sets up house in my chimney. I’ve been on the roof twice. I have a go-to plumber, handyman and general guy friend to call in a bind. I mow the lawn, shovel snow and put up outside Christmas lights. I am not nearly as hooah as ABW (who just lived through a flood) but then again, she is in a class by herself!  Generally I can muddle through.

However, I am about to confess two things which are my undoing.

I can’t sleep (this should actually read: I am too paranoid to sleep). And I won’t do the taxes.

I just sent my poor, deployed dh a list of information he asked for so that HE could do the taxes. From Timbuktu. And I didn’t even feel guilty. Well, ok, just a little bit. But hey, I offered to file for an extension, but he turned that option down. I think mainly because my husband, being the cheap frugal Dutchman that he is, couldn’t stand to think of Uncle Sam hanging onto our refund money any longer than necessary.

There you have it.  Just in case anyone out there was feeling inadequate hacking through life as an Army spouse, if you can sleep and do your 1040, you are way ahead of me.   If you need Christmas lights put up, though, I am totally your woman.


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